Ryan Reynolds admitted this week on Jimmy Kimmil Live that when he bought part of a Welsh soccer team he did it before consulting with his wife, Blake Lively (the most beautiful woman alive in my opinion) due to time restrictions and it didn’t go down well.
But a new study has found that "secret spending" by spouses can strengthen relationships . . . because it can create guilt that causes you to make an unplanned investment in the relationship, which your partner appreciates.
Even still, I wouldn't recommend this approach.